Let me ask you this.
Why do you want to be in a relationship?
If you haven’t thought about it, I would like you to take a minute and think about it.
Let’s think about your future when you are in a relationship. Let’s say, 5 years from today.
I want you to use your imagination here.
I want you to imagine what kind of relationship you are experiencing. In your mind, what do you see? Are you with him? Are you feeling happy? What is making you smile?
Here is the difference between dating and dating with purpose. You need to know why you want to be in a relationship.
By knowing reasons, you will be able to make a decision to let a man go if he doesn’t fit your vision of your relationship.
For example, you would like to have a relationship where you are appreciated, respected and cherished. In this relationship, you want to be treated well, have conversations and create deeper connections. If a guy just want to hang out and is not looking for a serious relationship, he is not a guy for you, and you can move on.
I’m not saying it’s easy, but you can make an intelligent decision about it.
If you still have difficulty letting it go, stay tuned to the next blog post.